Everyday Best
Why do we only eat on the good china during the holidays? Why do we only get dressed up when we are going out to see others? Let's use and show off our very best for the people in our lives every day. They are the ones that matter most when it comes down to it!...
Abandonment
I will admit it. Abandonment is my #1 struggle. I am ultra sensitive to it. You could do a lot of things to me, but if someone I deeply care about just walks away without closure…I am devastated. One relationship has been on my mind lately and my heart has been...
Normal
I don't believe that I have ever been considered 'normal,' but I sure did try hard to fit in for the longest time. I still catch myself doing it from time to time. But what I know is that it is only when I am genuinely myself do I attract the people and the clients...
The Life You Want
What does the life you want actually look like? Have you taken the time to define that? To picture it? I would strongly suggest that you get very clear on exactly what that is and then focus your time and energy on only that vision. It will take work and focus and...
Be a Superhero
What is possible in the eyes of a 4-year old with a superhero cape? Dang near anything! So get after it my friends. Go save your little corner of the world from evil and have a little fun in the process! #fridayfunny #whatispossiblewithasuperherocape #wendyswisdoms...
Patience
I had to learn this lesson hard core during my last divorce. Most of my friends were our mutual friends. Stories were told that I was the one causing all of the drama. That I was legitimately crazy and should be on medication. Almost every person in that core group...
Choose Happy
Inevitably there are going to be sad experiences we will go through in our lives. We all need an opportunity to sit in that. After all, it is those experiences that make the happy ones so much better in contrast. The key is not to stay there too long. Because there...
Say No
Learning to say no to those things that would not get me closer to my goals was one of the most difficult skills I ever had to develop. I'm a giver and I want people to like me so I continually offered myself up to do work that didn't serve me. In contrast, I have...
Lesson Learned
I don't mind the lessons. Learning and input are some of my top strengths. But those tests up front are a real pain in my ass. Guessing I am not alone in that feeling either. Today is a new day with new lessons learned. Let's do this! #lessonlearned #wendyswisdoms...
Too Picky
I'm not the "I'll have the salmon with the glaze on the side" kind of picky, but I definitely have my quirks. Like lettuce has to be eaten cold with other cold things. No hot meat next to cold lettuce. And that means if you put lettuce on my burger, I may not eat the...