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Lessons, not Life Sentences

Lessons, not Life Sentences

I know I am not the only one who holds dumb stuff I’ve done against myself for all eternity. And it’s not even dumb stuff. Chances I was too scared to make that would have made a huge difference in my life today. While I have regrets about so many of those...
Abandonment

Abandonment

I will admit it. Abandonment is my #1 struggle. I am ultra sensitive to it. You could do a lot of things to me, but if someone I deeply care about just walks away without closure…I am devastated. One relationship has been on my mind lately and my heart has been...
Normal

Normal

I don’t believe that I have ever been considered ‘normal,’ but I sure did try hard to fit in for the longest time. I still catch myself doing it from time to time. But what I know is that it is only when I am genuinely myself do I attract the people...
Patience

Patience

I had to learn this lesson hard core during my last divorce. Most of my friends were our mutual friends. Stories were told that I was the one causing all of the drama. That I was legitimately crazy and should be on medication. Almost every person in that core group...
Say No

Say No

Learning to say no to those things that would not get me closer to my goals was one of the most difficult skills I ever had to develop. I’m a giver and I want people to like me so I continually offered myself up to do work that didn’t serve me. In...
Lesson Learned

Lesson Learned

I don’t mind the lessons. Learning and input are some of my top strengths. But those tests up front are a real pain in my ass. Guessing I am not alone in that feeling either. Today is a new day with new lessons learned. Let’s do this! #lessonlearned...