
Learning to say no to those things that would not get me closer to my goals was one of the most difficult skills I ever had to develop. I’m a giver and I want people to like me so I continually offered myself up to do work that didn’t serve me. In contrast, I have also given my time, talents or treasures to people and events that allowed me to gain new skills or meet people I otherwise wouldn’t have. The key is to learn the difference and then be strong enough to say no when it isn’t beneficial to the life you want. #sayno #wendyswisdoms #lunchboxwisdoms